My Son's Essay on the Philippines
Candy Varona (Filipino-Canadian)
(cvarona@yahoo.com) wrote:
Please indulge me while I share with a lot of love and pride my son
Franco's unedited, straight-from-the heart essay which he wrote to me
in response to a forwarded email of a Korean student's essay on the
Philippines (copy attached). At times like this when our country is facing
another crisis and we start to despair, it warms my heart that our youth
have not given up on the Philippines. Frankie and I are so very proud of
our Franco!
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Hi mom, I read that forwarded email about that essay written by the
Korean student and while I do agree with many of the points he brings
up, it
also kind of upset me that his viewpoints were being read and seemingly
accepted by many Pinoys. So, I've decided to write you a little essay
of
my
own with a little bit of a different point of view.
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Why I Have Hope for the Philippines
I lived in the Philippines for a grand total of two and half years
after
growing up in Vancouver for a majority of my life. I finished off high
school in Manila, then went on to college there for one sem. I left
Manila
in the beginning of 1999 for Syracuse, but something happened to me
during
my short stint in Manila- I began referring to it as "home".
My brief stay in the Philippines had affected me so deeply that I
have
subsequently geared the rest of my life towards helping the country
out.
I
took up International Relations, with a concentration in Foreign
Policy,
War
and Conflict Resolution- because I believed that a deep knowledge of
all
three of those aforementioned subjects CAN and WILL help the
Philippines eventually. Before living in the Philippines, my motives
were
selfish and self-serving- I wanted to be a lawyer to make money, or be
a
journalist so I could, in my own way, shape the world through my words.
But living there and getting to know the country intimately helped
me
develop a love for the country that can only be compared to the love I
have
for my family.
Now, I have every intention of using that degree to its fullest
potential
in any way I can for the country. Even though my birthplace is Canada
and I
spent my formative years in the USA, the Philippines has somehow found
its
way to my mind and my heart. And I say `my mind' because I see the
Philippines as a challenge, not as a sinking ship. And I believe there
is a
whole generation of young Pinoys that feel the same way as me.
The Korean essay was right in some ways- sometimes I meet up with
second
generation Filipino-Americans and they simply do not care. They don't
identify with the Philippines and perceive it to be a dirty, corrupt
society. Although initially annoyed when I speak to these types of
people, I
eventually realize that it's not their fault- they have lived in a
developed
nation all their lives and know no better. I myself used to be like
that
before moving back. But you know what the Korean essay didn't mention?
It
happens with all second- and third-generation immigrant kids living in
developed countries. Although I have met many FilAms who don't wish to
go
back home, I also have met many Korean-Americans, Japanese-Americans,
even
Irish-Americans who don't have any connection to home.
There is love for the Philippines- the Korean essay was just looking
in
the wrong places. Do you want to know where the national pride is? It's
in
every Pinoy's face on the streets of Manila, Cebu, Davao, or any other
place
in the Philippines.
Life is hard for Filipinos- I see that every time I'm home. But
there
is
a mutual love shared between Pinoys. They enjoy the simplest of the
simple
things of everyday life - from the fishball vendor dancing outside a
nightclub in the wee hours of the morning to the late night security
guard
that wakes up just to give you a nod and a smile. Although generally
the country has come under hard times, the Pinoy has somehow found a
way
to survive, and do it with a smile.
When I go back to the Philippines, I don't see the jaded looks of
misery
I see in the streets of North America. I see in every Pinoy's face a
glint
of hope - that everything can only get better from here on out.
National
pride is also in today's college student- today's young working
Filipino.
I have been lucky enough to have run into a rather large, very
motivated
group of young Filipinos outside of the Philippines that harbor an
immense
love for the country. I've seen these people in college, I've hung out
with
them in different cities and amongst these young Filipinos, there is
one
prevailing theme. They have goals, they have passion, and they are
driven to
succeed.
Sure, they may spend a few years out of the Philippines after
schooling,
but they will go back. And when they do, Mom, I promise you a
Renaissance.
These are the people that will lead our country into better times -
these
are the people that will bring back with them the knowledge and the
drive to
motivate others. These are the people that will bridge the gap between
the
"masa" and the rich. These are the people that will take that glint of
hope
in every Pinoy's eye and create a wildfire of productivity and
efficiency.
The Philippines is still, by definition, a young country. There have
been
mistakes made in the past, but we will learn, won't we? It's just human
nature. I don't look at the Philippines as a country that "was" one of
the
richest in SE Asia and now is one of the poorest - I look at the
Philippines
as the country that has the largest upside. Just be patient, and watch
as
the younger generation moves into place. You will see a more educated,
less
selfish government take the seat of power. You will see plans put into
effect that were formulated and perfected which were fueled by years of
anger against the poverty we now see.
A new Philippines will emerge soon, and soon we won't have to bear
the
pity of a Korean student. I can promise you that much mom, because I
know
I'm one of the many that will be working towards that.
From: jverano@fetaonline.com